The Art of Helping People
Rule number one is never expecting them to reciprocate your help. Don’t expect something in return. You help because you want to help, not to do transactions and you know that the people that you want to help want help from you. Be real, wise and authentic.
Rule number two never regrets that you helped someone. It’s something that you can’t control and always believe that you were helping them because you want to help. If you don’t want to help them, then just say no.
Rule number three is to believe that YOLO (You Only Live Once) to help someone dearly for someone. The impact, you can have it later. Not instantly but you can have it in the afterlife. like, Pay It Forward movie, kind of.
Rule number four is, it’s okay to ask for help. The first regret and the biggest wastes of time when we get older are not asking for help, alongside worrying too much about other people.
Rule number five, your time/money/things will not get wasted just for doing a favor or help someone. Sharing things with someone that we care or need for help does not make you poor in life, but instead, it creates something that bonds and you can cherish meaningful things in life, especially yours.
Before all those, sometimes people will do bad at you, so get your boundaries straight before everything else.